Question: Could you suggest a guy for my cousin, preferably MS in US?
Answer: Yes, absolutely. Ask your cousin to sign up for our Market-Manager service, we can help the cousin find a spouse. This program is a very involved engagement where we do a 60-min assessment call to learn about your cousin and her preferences. We will create and manage matrimonial profiles on her behalf on various matrimonial websites. We will search and identify a highly select list of prospective spouses to save your cousin all hassle of searching on her own. We will have regular review calls to tell your cousin what we are upto behind the scenes and assess how things are going with the people we’ve already introduced her to. To know more, check out our services page.
Question: My cousin already has profiles everywhere, but there’s no one suitable for him.
Answer: There are several reasons why your cousin may not have been successful in finding a suitable partner. So I suggest that you ask your cousin to sign up for one of our advisory programs. We will help assess what has and what hasn’t worked for him and help re-build his matrimonial strategy so his search for a partner is more effective.
Question: Can I register on behalf of my cousin?
Answer: No, unless you also want to get married on his/ her behalf.
Question: Hello, my cousin asked me to check out the market-advisor service, but I don’t understand why I need it.
Answer: Well, have you been meeting potential partners for at least a year now, and you haven’t really liked anyone you’ve met? We would say either you’ve been meeting the wrong people, or you don’t really know what you want. Now, if you don’t really know what you want, you could do some soul searching on your own or work with a mentor like Marriage Broker Auntie, to clearly identify your core values and partner preferences, so your matrimonial search becomes more effective. If you’ve been meeting the wrong people, then we might have a bigger challenge that needs addressing. There are many reasons why this could be happening, but it takes a bit of guided reflection before you can make any progress. We can help you reflect and analyse what’s worked and what hasn’t worked for you so far. Together, we can re-build your approach to finding a partner so that you can be more successful in your partner search.
Question: Hey, I don’t need mentoring, but could you still help?
Answer: Yes, we do several things – we can help manage your profiles on various matrimonial apps. We understand it’s a pain to login everyday and weed through a sea of really weird people to find your soulmate, especially when you have a day job. If that’s something you don’t need help with, but you just want to chat with someone about your matrimonial search, have someone listen to you vent or act as a sounding board for you to analyse how a date went, we have something called a “Quickie”, which is a pay as you go service. This also gives you an opportunity to decide if you would like to register for any of our other services.
Question: Do I have to pay for a membership on each of these websites/ apps and pay you as well for assisting me in my search?
Answer: Yes, that’s pretty much how it works. We provide assistance, and you pay for the database on websites (such as Shaadi, Matrimony, Jeevansathi, etc.) of your choice. We are happy to make recommendations on which sites would suit you best.
Question: When should I sign up?
Answer: That’s something for you to decide. Yes, you, and not your mum or dad. There isn’t a particular age that I would recommend you start your search. Earlier the better. For instance, if you are 27, and you (or/ and your family) have been actively looking for a partner for a year or more, but for some unknown reason(s), it’s just not been working out, you must consider reaching out to us. We can help make your matrimonial hunt more effective so you can spend more time being married to the love of your life than looking for him/ her.
Question: Will I get my money back if I don’t find a partner at the end of 3 months?
Answer: Unfortunately not. The discoveries you make or the people you meet with our help will stay with you forever, and no one can take that away.