What if?

I am in the business of making people more marriage-ready (provided that they want to be) through one-on-one coaching. While I try my best to keep up my end of the deal, there are some things in the world that I cannot influence – supply of soulmates. Even if you Read more…

Wanting it all

Today, the thirty somethings in India are really struggling to find life partners like never before. When I say like never before, I mean these are people you would have expected to be married already, but not anymore.  Some 8-9 years ago, on Varamahalakshmi festival, our family priest, who also Read more…

Profile picture protocol

First impressions are really important, especially so in the arranged marriage market.  The moment you are introduced to someone in the market, the first order of business is them stalking your internet presence. You will be judged on every tiny detail you have floating around on the internet, even before they Read more…

Emotional dependence

Marriage is a choice, but very often, in India, people make it seem as if they don’t have one. There are some people who feel obligated to be married for their parents’ sake. While parents would love to see their wards married and “settled” (an unattainable state of stability that parents Read more…