How marriages dissect families

A common household pre-marriage dialogue that I am absolutely aversed to is “madhve aagi hodmele, hudgiru, yaavatthu bere manevre”. I always liked to believe this is not true. My world seems to be crumbling around me now that I see that line becoming a reality in life. I began to analyse what it is that…

Louvvu Love v/s Arranged Love

These two concepts belong to 2 different planes altogether. So, it makes no sense to make any comparison between them.Head drives and heart gets driven around in arranged love, where as its the other way round in love. In case of wheel drive like in the Fortuner, one can afford to let 2 wheels driven…

n=0 ; l=0 ; ml = 0 ; ms = +1/2

This is turning out to be like a relationship between the nucleus and the electron in the inner most orbit. But, strangely the current is flowing even though this particular electron ain’t responsible for it. I always wondered why these people in movies got cold feet just before marriage, because for me, it always seemed…

Karabath series

If you are familiar with the traditional heN noding shastra (from kannada movies), then most common thindi that is served to the to-be-groom is Karabath and Kesaribath. Since i am not very fond of sweets, i’d prefer just the Karabath. (You get very yummy karabath in Veena Stores,Margosa Road,Malleswaram).┬áJust like how you put your toe…

Love in the time of early summer rains

She walked. He walked along. She’s rather have him walk and she walked along. He in a crisp white shirt. She in hers. Just the sound of their footsteps, ruffling in the rain water. The sounds of the rain heavier. They hold hands to jump across a puddle, sticky hands, from humidity. But cold as…

Shantaram – Most loves are like that!

Some women are like that. Some loves are like that. Most loves are like that, from what i see. Your heart feels like an overcrowded lifeboat. You throw your pride out to keep it afloat, and your self respect, and your independence. After a while, you start throwing people out – your friends, everyone you…