Marriage Broker Auntie is your personal wingman in the arranged marriage market. The journey of finding a life partner through the traditional arranged marriage route can get incredibly lonely, especially when your pool of single friends starts depleting and the whole universe won’t stop reminding you of it.
I lend a ear like a non-judgemental friend when you want one, I even double up as your mum if you’d rather hear it from someone your age than your mum. I share anecdotes/experiences, not from 30 years ago, but from your peers who I have insightful conversations with. If you’d like, I can even help build an effective search strategy to help you figure out who you should marry, where you can find them and how you can make it happen based on my vast experience from interacting with your generation.
In a nutshell, think of me as a relationship coach who can help you make the right decision when it comes to finding a life partner.
1. What does Marriage Broker Auntie really do?
2. How does this work?
I am your very own personal mentor in the journey of discovering your “marriage materialness” to flaunting that in front of your potential life partner. I have deep conversations with you. I do my homework (read, I stalk the living hell out of you). Based on my incredible ability to understand people and using my hunch about you, I develop a customised mentoring program based on your story to help you make better decisions.
Over 5 one-on-one video calls, I help address different aspects of your matrimonial search from building your checklist (or tearing it apart if you already have one!) to assessing how your dates went helping you make better decisions on who to marry. At the end of our engagement, I believe you will be more marriage-ready if not already married since this involves a lot of involvement from your end as well.
3. How long does the personalised mentoring program last?
I recognise that every individual is different and hence, I carefully design mentoring modules based on individual need. I catch up with you once in two weeks over three months as I believe that is sufficient time for you to make significant progress on your matrimonial hunt.
If you feel you don’t have the time to be actively engaged over three months, then I recommend that you don’t sign on until you are absolutely sure you want to do this as you need to be as committed as I am to make it work.
4. I don’t need personalised mentoring, but could you still help?
Absolutely! I offer a 45-min paid consultation session that I lovingly call a “Quickie”, where you will be able to share your story in greater detail and I will provide you with a quick diagnosis and suggest some hacks on how to make your spouse hunt more effective. This also gives you an opportunity to decide if you would like to register for my “Guided spouse-hunt” service.
5. Do you matchmake?
No, I don’t matchmake.
6. When should I sign up with Marriage Broker Auntie?
If you (or your family) have been actively looking for a partner for a year or more, but for some unknown reason(s), it’s just not been working out, you should most definitely reach out to me because I help make your matrimonial hunt more effective so you can spend more time being married to the love of your life than looking for him/ her.
7. Will I get my money back if I don’t find a partner after being mentored?
Unfortunately not. The discoveries you make about yourself over these 3 months stay with you and no one can take that away.
“Marriage Broker Auntie constantly kept listening to my apprehensions and gave me some much needed advice that has helped me make one of the biggest decisions of my life.”
“I’ve had an overwhelmingly positive experience with Marriage Broker Auntie – was available to talk on demand, answer questions, provide valuable suggestions, and was almost like a friend and confidant.”
“When I came across her Fb page and read some of her blogs, I was curious to know how it all worked. I registered with her and lo and behold, I am married today. Thanks.
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Have you spent years rummaging various matrimonial sites with little hope of getting hitched? Get a personal wingman to turn things around!
If you aren’t sure this is for you, send me specific questions you may have and I am happy to answer them.
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